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Lilies and Roses

7/22/2017

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A sweet friend of mine and her husband took me out for a birthday dinner. We've been trying to get together now for months and it's been long over due. It would seem that everytime we'd try to get together this last year, so many obstacles jumped in the way. But what I loved so much about about this gathering was the unintentional meaning behind these sweet flowers I was given.
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These may look like a simple beautiful bouquet but they are so much more. These flowers represent the friendship I have with my friend. She didn't just go out and buy plain ole regular flowers. I noticed they are mature flowers... meaning they aren't small little ones. I noticed how big and luscious they all are while arranging them in the rose vase my mother left me. The roses are big, strong and are very thorny. The kind of thornes that prick you every single time you try to pick them up. The eucalyptus are some of the biggest leaves I've ever received. And they all smell so wonderful.

These flowers are a representation of how our relationship has changed, grown and matured into something even more beautiful than it was before! While the arrangement is so beautiful to look at, when trying to move them around I found it extremely difficult because of the thornes. Our friendship has certainly gone through some very trying times and we have been pricked a few times trying to make it stronger. The strength in those roses represent us not giving up on our friendship. It's represents the perseverance it takes to keep fighting no matter how much we keep pricking our fingers. I look at how mature these flowers are and think of the process it took to get them that way. That process is just like the friendship that I've cherished for 8 years with my sweet friend. These flowers stand tall and mature, giving off a beauty that is pleasing to the environment. That is the kind of friendship you want to have in your life. Friendships like these are rare! I'm so grateful!
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The Deepest Level

7/15/2017

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Sometimes we believe that we've got to be perfect and things have to be in order before we can have peace. That is a bold faced lie! Most of my life has been hard. I'm not talking about hard because i was bullied at school or hard because I experienced multiple traumatic events or had a breakup or even the fact that I suffered all kinds of abuse growing up. I'm talking about hard in the sense of not having Jesus in my daily walk. It was hard because I was not taught where to find peace and who to find it in. 
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It took me years to finally learn who I was. The only way I learned was when I began walking with the Lord. Now, I had always knew of Him but did not have a daily walking relationship with Him. On the surface it seemed all was good. But there was turmoil underneath. Through dedication of reading His word and being obedient I finally figured out who I was. When I figured that out it was right at that moment that a wave of peace hit me. My circumstances did not change immediately but inside I was a whole new person. I finally had peace and was determined to share it. I wanted to respond differently and learn to walk in grace. Its because I had faith that God gave me peace. When He did, He took me to a deeper level of myself that I never knew existed. Of course we all hear about how He shows us grace and mercy but we don't always hear about individuals showing grace and mercy. And its because of His peace that I've been able to walk in grace and mercy no matter what circumstances lie before me. 
I've learned that we can go through much trauma, physically and mentally, in life but its in that torture that we can have still peace; if we know where to look for it. Where do you look for peace? In God's word. He gives very clear direction and support when we need it most. It is the only place that will give you the resources you need to handle any circumstance you go through and it is the only place where you'll be able to find out who you are at the deepest level.
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